Love letters are an art. These art lessons carry with them a promise of something deeper if mastered. Yet too many people write amateurs, uneducated love letters. It’s a promise we strive to live up to, yet they fail to reach the expectations we have for these letters. It’s easy to learn the steps to writing a LOVE LETT, but the way you write it can make a huge difference in it’s outcome.
Step #1: Write A Recognition Of Yourself In The Letter:When you write a love letter, you must realize it is not just about what you would like to receive but about what you would like to give as well. Most of us follow our hearts, but hearts date back to the beginning of time. The first step is writing a letter that makes you feel good. Start with a romantic one. Love letters are personalized for a reason. Like the personalized items they come wrapped in, it’s the person’s tastes that matter. Use that knowledge to make your letter shine!
Step #2: Research On The Person:The next thing you want to know about the recipient is who they are. The chances of something magical happening if you start a love letter with “I would like to marry you” are slim, assuming the other person knows you. But if it’s someone at work or some stranger someone at the car company, you have a better chance of getting a reply that will be genuine and heartfelt. If you are sending the letter through the mail, there will be a little more encapsulation, but it’s still important to find out as much about your potential sweetheart as possible.
Step #3: Write In A Love Letter:In this step, you have to let the other person know that you are interested in getting to know them better. So start by letting them know who you are, what you enjoy, but really dwell on telling them who you are and what you love. Tell them about your hobbies and aspirations. And try your best to say what you think about their interests as well. Avoid heavy or controversial topics. But if your interest turns out to be a love letter, be sure to let the person know that you had a lot of fun spending time with them and that you look forward to writing another letter.
Step #4: Keep The Message Short And Sweet:Even when you spent a lot of time dictating what you wanted to say, make sure to keep the message short. People want to have the pleasure of reading a long love letter, not a one and a half sentence. So be sure to end it with a call to action: you should give the person you sent the letter an idea of what you would like to do next. If you didn’t get a reply, make sure you remember them. If you did get a reply, be sure to take the address (and add them on your Next Move).
Step #5: Send A rites Of passage:Always remember to wise to keep your first contact as private as possible. A love letter is a personal thing, so be sure to be sincere and thoughtful. And to keep your letter honest and sincere, be sure to use a little bit of hand writing. With time, your love will grow and you can exchange phone numbers.
As you can see, sending a love letter has its roots in the history of art and literature. The perfect gift and gesture for any occasion.